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Thoughts on books, reading, culture, and the literary life.
the ask@AAR: How has romance changed since you first started reading it?
February 10, 2023Today’s ask is a suggestion from AAR reader BeckyK. (It’s a great one!) How has romance changed since you first started reading it? What changes do you feel are for…
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the ask@AAR: Will older heroines in romance mean older parents?
February 3, 2023I have been thrilled to see more love stories published with older protagonists. I’ve just finished reading one–coming out this summer–where the heroine, age 49, is determined to get married…
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2022: A Year of Book Sales in Review
February 1, 2023Every year, I review the books purchased from Amazon by AAR readers. In 2022, our sales dropped, likely due to Kindle Unlimited. Through our links, readers bought 15,280 books for…
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the ask@AAR: What’s the most imaginative romance you’ve ever read?
January 27, 2023As a child, I loved fantasy–The Chronicles of Prydain, The Dark is Rising Sequence, The Wolves of Willoughby Chase, The Wrinkle in Time Quintet–these were books I read repeatedly, happily…
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The Best of 2022 – Dabney’s List
January 23, 20232022 was not my best year for romance reading. I read only three DIKs published in 2022 and, when I look at my Goodreads list, there isn’t a single five…
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the ask@AAR: Is there still a canon for romance? What books should or shouldn’t be on it?
January 20, 2023Almost exactly a year ago, I asked whether or not AAR should, as it typically does every five years, do a new Top 100 poll. As is the case with…
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the ask@AAR: Will ChatGPT ruin the writing? The world?
January 13, 2023It’s fair to say I’m obsessed with ChatGPT. What’s that, you ask? Hmmm… let me try and explain. ChatGPT is an artificial intelligence bot that answers questions in fairly fluent…
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Talking with Jane Porter
January 8, 2023Jane Porter is one of the few romance writers writing love stories that, among other things, feature Baby Boomers. Her latest book, Flirting with the Beast, features a smart, sexy…
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the ask@AAR: What were the trends in romance in 2022?
January 6, 2023Now that 2022, is in the books, what did you notice about it in romance? From my perspective, there definitely were some trends. Here, in no particular order, are some…
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the ask@AAR: a 2022 retrospective
December 30, 2022In 2022–including this one!–AAR has published 52 the ask@AAR columns. Many of these generated lots of comments. Readers had the most to say about their pet peeves in romance, trigger…
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the ask@AAR: What books, shows, movies, or other things are you looking forward to in 2023?
December 23, 2022Another year has flown by and–I can barely believe this–2023 is almost upon us. I’m super pumped for this coming year–my husband is going to retire and I can’t wait….
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the ask@AAR: Do you like holiday romances?
December 16, 2022Currently we have over two hundred reviews tagged as holiday romances. One, One Christmas Knight by Kathleen Creighton garnered one of our rare (55) A+reviews. There’s also an snarky F–our…
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