Essays & Musings
What We’ve Been Thinking About
Thoughts on books, reading, culture, and the literary life.
So… about safe spaces in literature…
February 23, 2026I am not here to tuck you in.
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the AAR Top 100 Romances Polls (1998 to 2026)
February 20, 2026The AAR Top 100 List 2026 (unranked) 10 Things I Hate About the Duke by Loretta Chase A Dangerous Kind of Lady by Mia Vincy A Duke of Her Own…
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A New Modesty Code for Romance
February 18, 2026Something has changed at Amazon, and it is not good.* Over the past several weeks, many romance titles have begun returning the same message in Amazon’s SiteStripe interface: This product…
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Eternity: a movie review
February 16, 2026In David Freyne’s winning film Eternity, the newly dead have endless themed paradises to choose from. If you can imagine it, it’s an option. There’s Beach World, Nudist World, Studio 54…
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Wanna meet some trolls?
February 13, 2026Anyone looking for tragedy needs to, literally, do nothing but read, watch, and, god help you, scroll. It’s harder to find joy. If you are lucky enough to be in…
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Meet the trolls
February 12, 2026Is there anything more joyful than twelve towering wooden trolls tucked into winter woods?
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On Leaving — and Staying
February 11, 2026Estrangement can be necessary. It should not be fashionable.
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2026: My year of failure.
February 9, 2026In 2026, I plan to fail spectacularly at constant self-improvement by choosing joy, rest, and dessert.
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As Fiction Changes, Does Our View of Men Change Too?
February 8, 2026As fiction has shifted away from taking men seriously on the page, does it change how women see them in real life?
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Author book blurbs are the worst
February 7, 2026Do we really care if a Very Famous Author loved a book? My answer: Nope.
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It’s been a great thirty years….
February 6, 2026This is a hard column to write. So I’ll just say it: AAR is retiring. All About Romance launched in 1996. It was created by the incredible Laurie Gold, and…
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Welcome to the passionate reader!
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