Essays & Musings
What We’ve Been Thinking About
Thoughts on books, reading, culture, and the literary life.
the ask@AAR: How are you feeling about historical romance?
June 18, 2021In October of 2019, we asked you whether you thought historical romance had a quality problem. That column is still the most commented upon Ask column and it made many…
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Pick the next AAR Good Time Book Club read!
June 14, 2021It’s time to pick the next AAR Good Time Book Club read! In this first round, pick as many as you’re interested in! Here are the choices. You must use…
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the ask@AAR: What was the first romance novel you read?
June 11, 2021While the first romance that ever really registered with me is Sweet, Savage Love (and I attribute that to it being the first book in which the sex was varied…
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Desperately Seeking Non-Fiction Written by Women
June 7, 2021Confession: I don’t read non-fiction. BUT. Everyone in my family are fanatical nonfiction readers and, as I look at the books they’re reading, I realize almost all the authors are…
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the ask@AAR: Can romance include abortion?
June 4, 2021Almost 50% of pregnancies in the United States are unintended and, in 40% of those, women chose to end their pregnancies. Whether you’re pro-life or pro-choice, the fact is many…
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What are you watching?
June 1, 2021I’ve been in a TV slump lately. The only thing I’ve watched in weeks has been My Octopus Teacher which, while very good, required so little attention I was able…
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the ask@AAR: What’s your favorite queer romance?
May 28, 2021This week, the New York Times has a lovely column by Olivia Waite in which she recommends six romances with queer protagonists. Waite writes: Time was I could have covered…
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What would you take to a Desert Island. NO CHEATING!
May 26, 2021OK, the ship you were on sank and you and the island partner of your dreams managed to make it safely to a remote island with no hope of immediate…
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the ask@AAR: What’s the most romantic season?
May 21, 2021Here in the American Southeast, summer is closing in. When Sophie and I walk in my neighborhood, people are out in shorts and slides, and the sound of air-conditioning hums…
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the ask@AAR: What famous couple would you like to inspire a romance novel?
May 14, 2021One of my favorite country love songs of the past few years is Johnny Cash Heart by Caleb Lee Hutchison. The chorus is: You wrap me up in some kind of…
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Best Moms in Romance?
May 10, 2021I was fortunate enough to spend yesterday, Mother’s Day, with my mom–truly the best mom and grandmother I could imagine. Until she retired at 79, she was a children’s librarian….
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A Tribute to Heather Rash
May 8, 2021Heather Rash (listed in the AAR annals as Heather Stanton) died suddenly last week at the age of 45. Heather wrote prolifically at AAR from 2011 to 2017. Her reviews…
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Sometimes a name is just a name
on offense, accommodation, and the value of getting the facts right
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A Novel Is Not a Safe Space
Books are allowed to offend you. You are allowed to close them. Everybody survives.
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Prestige TV rediscovers the joy of family and friends
sappy for the win–really
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